Sticks n Stones

Call me stubborn, pig-headed, what you will; I am sure I have been called worse than whatever you’re thinking over the years of my life.

Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me is the cliché that is ringing through my mind right at this point.

My comment to this saying is what a load of bullshit!

Names, taunting, picking on, singingly out and constant teasing takes its toll on people when it continues over a period of time.

With the fast paced technological highway we race through life using, the internet has now made this once child hood rhyme that encouraged children not to worry about those who were bullying them by reciting this ridiculous saying over and over as adults of a child being the subject of school yard pranks, bullies and their ways encouraged their victim child to use this simple yet stupid fucking catch phrase to discourage school yard hardship, heart ache and bullying.

Fact is, it didn’t work then and doesn’t work now.

With bullying now turning into a worldwide humiliation of sought’s the so-called harmless school yard bullying goes outside the school gates and onto the World Wide Web.

An audience of world-wide watchers are now in on this school yard mockery, and victims are left helpless,

Members of social networking  can report it to the networks that they may be experiencing particular bullying and or other bullshit, but reality shows that the bully now autonomous with the cloak of their aviator, and programs that will hide their I.P address leaves the victim more vulnerable now than ever.

There is a part of me that looks at the world today and those evolved bullies within it and shakes my head, meanwhile the other part of me the more realistic and human part of me wants to slap these little try hards clean across the mouth.

They have little if any knowledge of what their actions are inflicting or causing with their flow on effect that the victim can does and often is suffering when they are developing relationship skills and interacting with others becomes a nightmare rather than a joy an adventure, for individuals who have experienced bullying at levels that are beyond ridiculous you would assume that there was a punishment out there that would warrant the detrimental effects bullying does and has on individuals throughout their lives.

However as per usual there is no punishment to fit the crime, and bullies continue to evolve, and manifest into the modern terrorist groups such as those of the alleged al-Qaeda.

It actually makes me feel sick to the pitt of my stomach to realise that groups such as those in Afghanistan are hyped up by governments and nothing more than a group of extremists who are oversized under educated un privileged groups of fucking bullies.

Who somehow have bin laden, bin bag, and whoever else they choose to call the leaders of these extremist groups that are vamped up by the biggest bullies on the face of the earth, the world fucking governments.

Is it any wonder there is no punishment fit for the crime of bullying within our worlds?

No I assume that the above statement speaks for itself.

Considering those who control writing and dictating of laws are the biggest bullies on the face of earth itself.

I roll my eyes almost in the sense of realising that arguing the point is futile, knowing the outcome is useless and bullies are always going to be part of our day-to-day life.

But what I will say to you dick heads out there in your groups and fan clubs of bullies united, is one day you will be isolated from the pack in which you feed with, and on that day, you will find that your victims you have caused so much harm to or their families who have lost one of their members due to suicide thanks to your bullying and antics, will get you.

An eye for an eye I believe is the term.

Karma is the 2nd term I refer to, because like it or not, believe in it or not, what goes around comes around.

What you put out into this world will come back to you one way or the other


About Angel O'Fire

New Zealand born, this kiwi chick took flight to live in the great land down under in Queensland Australia in 1988. I am clumsy at times not known for my tact and or grace, straight to the point, and somewhat impatient, I have come to accept that what is in this life simply is. Far from religious, I do not believe in a divine god per say that will come down and save the world, although I accept each to their own when it comes to their views and beliefs of what religion is or should be. I consider myself to be my own worst critic as I tend to strive for best, and have a tendency to push myself physically and emotionally beyond my limits. Still naive at times, still hoping to see the good rather than the bad in people, this has not been one of the qualities that I can say I am fond of, as it has come to burn me time after time over the years. I am a strong believer in Karma, as I do believe in what we put out is what we do get in return, good bad or indifferent. With a tendency to stand my ground when it comes to opinions, as we all have one, there is no right nor wrong, it is a perspective, a view point on how we view a subject. Zero tolerance for others who are self-riotous, I have no interest in people who claim to have never done any wrong in their lives, and who judge others, prior to walking in those they cast judgement upon’s shoes. I am just your average girl who is trying to make my way through life as it is. I am a mother, lover, friend, partner, co-worker, manager, coach, and referee, a Jill of all trades. A firm believer that ‘ignorance is not bliss’ nor is ‘ignorance’ and excuse to be an arsehole in the world we live in today, those who continue to use the ‘ignorance is bliss’ rule are plainly arrogant and uneducated. I love the water, beach surf and sand, the water is where I seem to find myself when I need to take 5 mins out of life's hectic cycle. I figure that each to their own, as it takes all kinds of people to make the world go round. I believe that life is not learnt out of a text book, and often wonder why we teach our lessons from one to our growing generations. Although I can be a surprising wealth of knowledge I find it amazing how a person can actually no so much about nothing, yet be a master of the topic. I am that girl who cuts her jeans into shorts because she got hot, am not one to enjoy shopping, in fact I hate the entire nightmare of going shopping and it has me fkd how so many chicks say 'lets make a day of it' and love bouncing from shop to shop looking at things that are well pointless. All in all that is me so hello world I'm Angel.
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One Response to Sticks n Stones

  1. Scottie says:

    I think there is more a culture of bullying now than there was when I was growing up. Yes it was there and in some cases very bad, but bully’s today are backed up by parents that condone what their kids do, that support the attitude that if your different it is OK to hurt and humiliate you. It seems that government leaders are also giving their approval to lash out at those who are different, religious leaders are doing the same. Instead of these people, these groups fighting against it, trying to curb it, they are instead using it, dismissing it, and sadly all of the children and the adults both of these groups become pay the price. Hugs

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